Comments on: Why Does the Same Thing Keep Happening to Me by Sasha Xarrian

By: AdminCyndi

AdminCyndi — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 12:57:29 +0000

Hi Gina;

I understand your confusion – I have often spent lots of time and energy invested in those events that have caused me some degree of suffering.
And then I began to understand that I always have the choice as to where I place my concentration. By deciding that the blessings in my life are more important then those events that are “challenges” – I have found that I spend much more time in peace and joy.
It’s not a matter of pretending that those things didn’t happen. It’s more about deciding that they aren’t what I choose to invest my energy in.
Am I making sense? If not – let me know. This one little shift in focus can change everything

In Joy

Cyndi

By: Gina

Gina — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 11:54:04 +0000

I do understand this concept & by doing this I feel like I am ignoring reality, what is in front of me. So “pretending” that it did not happen or that it does not bother me? Then the concept of I make my own reality?……..any comments on this? Confused

By: Joleen

Joleen — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 10:08:12 +0000

Hi Sasha

This is me and I don’t want to experience bad things anymore. I am 33 and it always felt that bad things just happens to me and I am the only one always staying behind, well today I made up my mind and went through your 1-6 five times so yes I expect a better me starting right now this moment.
Thanks for your work and thanks for sharing your family with us.
Love
Joleen

By: Emmanuel Moeti

Emmanuel Moeti — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 05:20:12 +0000

this is wonderful stuff… u no i went to the dentist about 3 years ago, but the experience keeps playing in my mind like it happened yesterday.. i now say its over, its dead, it will neva occur in my mind or in reality again….

By: john newell

john newell — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 19:19:56 +0000

Hi Sasha
I think reading your email or enzine or whatever it is it brings to mind a few years ago,when I was manager of our local football team. A saying I use to use is,where the thought goes the energy flows,instead of distracting your mind or indeed distracting your mind with thought that are the opposite to what your are thinking creats a sense of balance, which to my mind is most important.
Have a balanced outlook
John

By: Dave Robson

Dave Robson — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 18:36:05 +0000

Hi Sasha,

If you keep manifesting the same thing over and over then you need to change what you are doing. Why? because if we continually do the same thing, we get the same result.

You know what I would do differently? Stop researching, analysing and thinking. Go with your intuition, instincts, gut feelings, trust your heart to direct you to a good dentist.

Many people have a lot of fear around dentists (myself included) because we anticipate pain and we don’t want to get hurt. But you always get what you expect, so I have adopted a habit now of going to the dentist with my focus firmly fixed on expecting a good experience and a good outcome. Hey, it works for me!

Have a nice day, and lots of love from London, England

Dave

P.S. You say you don’t want to discuss or give energy to your negative thoughts any more, but you have done exactly that by writing this article! Just don’t go there!

By: John

John — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 22:08:42 +0000

Thank you for the ideas and the book Sasha.

A friend of mine always says ‘Expect Success’. It’s good advice and it’s relevant to every aspect of your life, and I think it fits nicely with what you have written here.