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2010 – The Year of Relation-Shifts by Jim Self

How do you experience relationship?

  • Have you noticed that the world around you seems to be different?
  • Are you becoming aware that people are relating to you differently? Or that as you communicate with or offer assistance they don’t seem able to hear you or to accept what you have to say?
  • Have you noticed that your relationship to your friends and others are no longer as interesting as they once were?

Many people are noticing huge changes in their relationships, some of which are not at all easy to deal with.  Although we are aware of the “Shift” and are being prepared for change, we nonetheless are having these same challenges.

Many of us are also finding ourselves wondering how we can fulfill our roles as healers, teachers and leaders, how we can the best way  offer assistance to those around us, and how to draw the line consciously (and kindly) when others around  are choosing to stay stuck and asleep.

The Shift we have all been waiting for has now arrived and is rapidly expanding within, through and around each of us. It is in the process of changing everything that we know and more particularly how we know and how we experience what we know.

The most fundamental aspects to this Shift will be very personal.  The primary focus of these aspects is to redefine and transform how we perceive, understand and have a relationship with every aspect of what is external to our conscious awareness. Your sense of relationship will never again be the same as the Shift progressives through 2012. When we think of the word relationship, we think of lovers, husband-and-wife, child and parent. “Me in relationship to you, I in relationship to my friends, co-workers and those I love as well as those I dislike.” But there is much more to how we have come to perceive and understand our relationship with others.

When the Creator said, “Go to the farthest edge of the farthest edge so that I may know myself in my fullness,” you ran to the front of the line saying, “Send me!”  What the Creator was actually saying was, “I wish to know myself in relationship to all that surrounds me.” But throughout time as we know it our understanding and demonstration of relationship has changed to something considerably different. We have come to know ourselves not by how we perceive ourselves in relationship to that which is around us, but instead have learned to perceive our relationship to all that is around us based on what those around us think of us.

For example, I may not have any interest in red shirts, but all of my friends wear red shirts because they are the ‘in’ thing.   So I give up my seniority, and deny my own alignment with what is my truth in order to fit in, to become one with, to be accepted by those outside of me who are expressing what is right and wrong, good and bad, and what I should and should not do and I put on my red shirt.

From the moment we draw our first breath to the moment we release our last, we are conditioned to define and measure ourselves by one thing only: our relationship to all that is outside of us.   We are systematically trained and conditioned by those who raise and nurture us to enter into a “consensus reality,” or “group agreement,” that many times has nothing to do with whom we are, and everything to do with the customs and belief systems that conditioned our parents and grandparents, who were in turn influenced by the society in which they were raised.

Consensus reality is a very powerful influence. It structures our relationship to and with all things outside of us. More importantly, it conditions and severely limits our understanding of the relationship we have with our self.

From early childhood we learn that what the outside world thinks of us is more important than what we each individually think of ourselves.  As we grow, what we think and believe, and how we act, respond and behave in our third dimensional reality is influenced, shaped and molded by that which is outside of us. Hence, almost everything about us, from our attitudes and habits, likes and dislikes, to our career choices and aspirations has its foundation in this group agreement: “This is how it’s done; this is what is acceptable and unacceptable.”

We have learned to feel the thoughts and feelings of others, and to seek approval from those around us before we act. We have learned to “test the waters” by not fully expressing our own thoughts without first checking in to determine the acceptability of what others have to say.  We’ve learned to read others’ body language to discern if it is safe to express our own desires, hopes, and dreams, before we can act on them without fear.  Without realizing it, we have virtually built our sense of our self on the opinions and approval of others: “Am I okay? Do you approve of me?  Am I acceptable in the eyes of the consensus reality?”

This is all about to change!

Contrary to everything you have been taught to believe, relationship is NOT about what other people think of you.  Although this is a fundamental Truth that you intellectually know, you are about to perceive this from a significantly expanded perspective. Through this understanding you will discover that your internal relationship with yourself is the most powerful relationship you can have.  From this vantage point everything outside of you becomes a gift to relate to on your own terms.

As many of us are becoming aware, there are two great waves of Light within the Shift that are bringing about a transformation within each of us. The First Wave of Light is clearing our old memory patterns and the belief systems of the consensus reality that do not support our well-being. This Wave is destabilizing and dissolving everything that is not aligned with our internal patterns of well-being and our relationship to our own truths. It is increasing our capacity to hold a higher Light quotient, providing us with the opportunity to access more information, greater wisdom and enlightenment of what we already know but have forgotten.

The Second Wave is a higher dimensional vibration of Light that is providing us with the opportunity to step into certainty, personal power, and command, and bringing about a balance*. This wave is also bringing about choices and opportunities to co-create, coexist, and cooperate without the judgments and opinions of right and wrong, good and bad and what you should or should not do.

This Shift of consciousness is triggering an Awakening. And in the process, countless millions are experiencing significant changes in their relationships. Many are beginning to realize that they can no longer be in relationship to one another in the same old way. We are being given the opportunity to perceive “relationship” through different eyes, and, in so doing, we are gaining the keys to unlock many lifetimes of conditioning that have prevented us from being able to distinguish between “WHO I AM” and “Who I am NOT.”

As this transition unfolds, however, many people are finding themselves in confusion as all their points of reference, all the things they have been taught to trust, admire and build the foundation of their lives and beliefs upon are destabilizing before their eyes.

The third dimensional established institutions are crumbling.  The structures of life that feed, house and keep us safe are breaking down. Suddenly we are seeing that the very authorities that we most believed, from healers who said “Come to me,” teachers who have proclaimed  they have the Truth to the leaders who say, “Trust me,” and all those to whom we have looked for guidance, have built their houses upon shifting sands.

As difficult as such changes may be for many, it is important to know that there IS a purpose to all that is occurring.  That purpose is to shift your relationship from what is outside of you to an alignment with what is inside you, from depending on the truths of others to discovering and setting your compass by your own truth. The first Wave of Light is not destabilizing “that which You Are,” rather, it is allowing you to clear away “that which You Are Not.”

As this occurs, a second very powerful wave of Light is providing us with the opportunity to rewire, rebuild and remember who we are and where we have come from. The second wave is providing the opportunity to refill the cup, in a manner of speaking. It is within the second wave that the realignment of our emotional body is being altered in the sleep space each night. It is through this second wave that a kinder, gentler you is being crafted. As “who you are not” is being cleared, there is a renewed relationship that is being remembered. You are beginning to remember the relationship you have with the Heart and Soul; a relationship that allows you to think from the Heart and act from the wisdom of the Soul. It is through this relationship that you will begin to “know yourself” and realign with the Love that you are within the Heart.

But love is a concept that is so vast the rational mind is not capable of perceiving its fullness.  However, when you begin to live Love in its unique aspects, Appreciation, Gratitude, Well Being, Beauty, Kindness, Graciousness and Certainty literally become living words.  As these living words become internalized, a magical shift begins, initiating the activation of the living etheric light body within.

This is the opportunity that’s unfolding throughout 2010. These are the stepping stones that will build the framework for our next level of ascension.

*As the Mastering Alchemy program reveals, words are not simply something we use to describe things; they actually carry vibrations that have very potent transformative powers.  Words such as “personal power,” “command” and “certainty” create structure, or masculine energy, which then allows the feminine energies of such words as “kindness,” “beauty” and “graciousness” to express their creativity through balance.  As we move through the Shift, we will transform our relationship to a number of key words as we learn to embody their true meaning and essence.

This article and other important key concepts about relationships, including the difference between masculine and feminine energy, and why becoming “Selfish,” and having and giving to yourself is more important than anything else you can do right now, will be discussed and expanded upon in the FREE live Webinar series YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND THE SHIFT that will commence on January 28th, 2010.  To register visit http://www.masteringalchemy.com/teleclasses.html.

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15 Responses to “2010 – The Year of Relation-Shifts by Jim Self”

  1. Kris says:

    I have forseen this also. The huge institutions and corporations are breaking down to make way for the revolution, bringing power back to individual rights and freedoms. I dreamed of going back to this time as a child where each persons skills were valued and utilized to create a “living”. It’s very exciting! Thanks for sharing this article.

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  2. Brady says:

    It is just sooooooooo amazing to be here alive at this point in time. It completely staggers the imagination… and what a blessing to be aware of it.
    Thankyou for this excellent article.
    Have a great Shift Kris!

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  3. MaryJo says:

    Beautifully put Jim. I”m signed up for your webinars and can’t wait!

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  4. Richie says:

    What are you talking about?

    All religion is based on “consensus reality.”

    Not all of this is “bad.”

    WHat about the “consensus” of language?

    Look at how style of “languaging” has often been a catalyst of mistrust, especially between generations.

    If there was no conformity at all, wouldn’t there be chaos?

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  5. Maxwell Hill says:

    Excellent article and I agree Brady this is a fantastic time to be alive. Old systems are breaking down (especially government – they just don’t know it yet) and evolving into a higher plane.

    It is important that people evolve(awaken) too, unfortunately the majority will not (this time round anyway).

    The bible also mentions this, I think it refers to it as ‘Restoring All Things’

    Unfortunately I think we are in for a rough time over the next couple of years, but like it or not ‘The Shift’ is happening.

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  6. Selene says:

    Thank you for this and the gifts of the free mp3s for the upcoming seminar this month. I’ll be there and will use this valuable info to further my ascension. I am grateful for these gifts.

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  7. Anthony F says:

    Great article. You made some interesting observations and accurate points within it, especially the very first three.

    Maxwell — I am not so sure about the Government breaking down, you could, in a sense, they are losing their power, but they will not give up, and they will always have a “solution” to whatever problem. Unfortunately for them and corporations, the shift that is happening does not support this specific kind of development.

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  8. deuce says:

    Hey, shift happens!

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  9. Girish says:

    This is a great article. It is clearly happening.

    The sad part however is that those who are already suffering are hit harder. The rich & powerful people are managing this shift relatively well. It is like Haiti gets a devastating earthquake and not Switzerland like countries who are swindling black money from across the world. Looks like Evil forces are getting stronger than the Good forces.

    There should have been some better creative ways to shift the lower level suffering people to a higher plane thru less pain and suffering process.

    Regards
    Girish

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  10. Leila says:

    It may be true that the older generations who are more attached to old forms will find this shift the hardest to flow with. Thank you for this article – it is reassuring.

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  11. Diana says:

    thanks for your article. I was sent a copy of this post yesterday from a friend.

    It as a welcome gift and I, in turn, read it to a friend over the phone who also found it enlightening.

    I have felt very different this last 5 months and less able to interact with the everyday world like I once did. Is this part of the shift? I hope so, as at least this offers some hope for change that will affect the way we interact with each other and the world around us.

    I for one welcome the change and hope for it to become far reaching this year. When things are feeling most challenging, then is the time we look to the light.

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  12. Kathleen says:

    The problem is that others’ perception of you can thwart or enhance your success and opportunities in the work place or in anything in public life for that matter. Unfortunately, their perception of you is more often than not a reflection of them than of you.

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  13. christopher says:

    Balance is always good. i find it interesting that some people have followed such a positive path and others too negative. personally i like the always happy positive option. i will be more aware now after reading your magazine of this shift. i will test it for myself, be open minded instead of just jumping in ( i used to end up looking silly and get shot down) but of course it has been happening to me more and more lately that the unevolved are not listening. this has been the case for awhile but if it gets worse then it’ll just be amusing (much like the universe, a divine joke). i like what neale walsche wrote “try laughter” . i like that approach and its been proven to be healthy energy on the cellular level, vibrations, radiation and all that quantum phsyics stuff. so sign me up! i always vote for the light.
    P.S.-i’m helping promote lazy poets.com. seeking poets and musicians working toward collective evolution and enlightenment. every little bit goes a long way. ciao

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  14. Shosh says:

    Thank you, Jim, for this great article. I can sense and feel that the shift is already here and I’m curiously looking forward for the next stage. You talked about the change in relationships and I totally agree with you. All I know and understand is that everything is happening for a reason and ultimately for our highest good!

    Thank you very much again and bless you

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  15. Annamarie says:

    Hello,
    I did not like the above article I love it and completely agree.
    I am in thouse shifts right now and it is great.
    It used to bug me when others just closed down and could not accept what I had to say to a degree where I just did not say anything anymore.
    Now I do speak up again and still love my friends and family whether or not they do understand.
    We are all at different levels of evolution and maybe it will hit some harder than others, which will be the time where we might be able to help and support with understanding they don’t have.
    Love and Blessings
    Annamarie

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