Comments on: Improving Communication Skills by Jeff Gignac with an Introduction by Cyndi

By: Ben Pate

Ben Pate — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 21:34:54 +0000

My wife would definitely agree on the point about the “tonality”. I’ve heard many times thats its not what i said but how i said it. Im gonna watch the video now and learn something

By: Patinsweden

Patinsweden — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 22:02:55 +0000

I love all what has to do with communication and this issue about trying is very interesting as I´ve for habit to just never count with the TRY people…and Sweden must be the number ONE NATION with al the great try practitioners…when ever I get that answer…some how I it feels as that was just that magic word my brain was waiting for to solve the problem….so the best I know as an inventor is to call all those friends who never ever will move a finger for me….they are my eternal inspiration…all it takes is phone call and ask for a favor…

all is a matter of reverse Psychology

By: Allie Casey

Allie Casey — Sat, 22 Aug 2009 20:19:14 +0000

Excellent lesson on taking known strategies and putting them together for maximum impact! No “trying” here–this I will do. Thank you.

By: kerneMync

kerneMync — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 21:48:53 +0000

FANTASTIC!

By: Randolph

Randolph — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 21:27:06 +0000

Thank you very much for this video. I have spent a lot of money in the past to attend seminars promising new stuff and it usually ends up being same old thing wrapped in new tech names. I have just learned more from this short video than I have attending some 2 day seminars. I am very much looking forward to your other videos that you mentioned in this video. Can those be found on You Tube ?

By: min

min — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 05:42:31 +0000

Hi. Thank you for video. It is wonderful. It gives it a personal touch and for me it works because it has visual effect.

Min

By: Droan

Droan — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 10:18:01 +0000

I am really excited after studying this article.I want more friends who want to learn this knowledge.my mail address: Dronapradhan@yahoo.com
Thank you

By: Windjackal

Windjackal — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 18:25:15 +0000

Sorry love, I don’t agree. Words are what they are and I believe it is people who don’t wish to hurt the feelings of another who misuse the word “try”. For instance, someone asks you to do something but you know you will not have the time, many people will say “I’ll try.” rather than “I’m sorry, I don’t have time right now.” This is why the task does not get done. The word “try” is not the causative factor. When I tell someone I will try, I always let them know up front why I may not be able to help them out and give them a time frame, or an honest assessment of my abilities. Also, sometimes, one can give their best effort to accomplish something (try) and fail miserably through no fault of their own. Remember, you are not the only person involved in many cases. The word try means to attempt, to give effort to something and to accept success OR failure based on that effort. Perhaps we should keep that in mind and stop worrying about what other people want or expect.

By: Robert Denton

Robert Denton — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 12:59:16 +0000

I wish so much that I had known about nlp and the ‘try issue’ before my companies went down the tubes, not after. Why did it all fail? Because I was TRYING to focus on mostly the wrong things. The times I asked employees to watch safety issues and work standards when I got “yeh OK I’ll try” and then nothing happened. Now I am a professional personal performance trainer and coach. So often I hear “I’ll try.” Just watch the facial expressions and body language of someone as they say “I’ll try.” What they are actually saying is “not a chance mate.” I have done a great deal of work on healing, spontaneous healing and telepathy or as it is now also know, subjective communication and developed my natural gift in this field. With the subjective communication skill I can actually hear the real thoughts of the person while promising on their death bed to try. That is where the coaching is so useful in getting the coachee or client to restructure the objective intent from ‘I’ll try’to ‘I’m on it now’ as they walk out the door.’ To cut to an important associated issue of the ‘I’ll try’ syndrome, 15 years research of spontaneous healing showed that those people who somehow triggered their own body’s innate healing system to start working again had similar thought processes. When doctors had said “sorry there is nothing left for us to try”, mentally the patient said to themselves “no way, if you cannot fix me then I will.” Those that died where the ones who gave up or tried everything under the sun but never believed in themselves or the likelihood of success. One conclusion was that those that kick start their innate healing system took back their self responsibility. Those caught in the I’ll try syndrome were always looking for someone or something to take responsibility for them and their cancer condition. When I see people saying “I’ll try”, my feeling is that they are actually trying to dodge the issue rather than take the responsibility for it.
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By: Shinka Meditation

Shinka Meditation — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 20:02:35 +0000

Hi Jeffrey, when I was training in hypnosis and NLP, our instructor made us put a quarter in a jar every time we unconsciously said the word try. It worked great.

Ilias