What I do sometimes is to send loving thoughts by actually saying “I love you” to people I have been in conflict with. It raises my vibrations and some of them have come to me as if nothing ever happened and they are so nice. They have even helped me without being asked. Like my neighbor wouldn’t mow his yard that is close to mine. Now sometimes he mows more than he needs to and he also plowed my sidewalk for me last winter. And all I did was send him love without saying anything to him. Thoughts are so powerful.:) This reminds me. I need to send some loving thoughts to someone else today.:)

I have been feeling such strong and bizarre negative energies around me for at least a week. (Including almost being hit by cars, having people say very rude and insulting things to me, … All of these have felt part of a concerted energy force.)

I have felt (as I always do) that I must be doing things to attract, or at least allow, these energies. So today I decided to google and look around for tips on how to deal and recover (pushing out the bad and letting in more good energy). I really appreciate these tips and will use them. It can be so hard to keep sending love and compassion when being assailed with negativity. But this is perhaps the time when it most important to do so — especially for my own positive survival.

Cheers,
Katie

I have done everything possible within my competence or power to defuse the tension, to calm and placate them, to no avail. I have employed positive thinking – “Dear Everybody, I love you.”, and affirmations such as “I forgive and forget all my enmity and anger, I send out thoughts of love and goodwill to all mankind. And what I affirm for myself, I desire also for all members of my family, that they too may experience all the joy that I experience, and learn how to bring their lives into harmony with the Infinite Principle of Good.” They remain vengeful, hateful, disrespectful, and determinedly implacable.

I have now since chosen the disconnection option, concluding that it is better really, to avoid those who never seem to be satisfied with whatever positive, mediating and concialtory gestures are made to appease them. I recently finally decided that to continue in this abusive and unedifying relationship would tantamount to giving permission to continue to be walked all over. So the hole, and plans, for negative, selfish, needy, people is, finally, plugged.

Whereas before, my waking moments and head were filled with guilt, misery and frustration, perpetually worrying about what it was I had possibly not been doing right, I am now eager to start each new day. I am now ready to think differently, to do things differently than I did them before. I am now living my life with grace and ease, rather than with emotional and psychological struggle volatility and hardship. I am ready to enjoy peace and joy that awaits me – that is ready to welcome me in.

With gratitude.

TAL

I try my techniques and it works.

1. I say affirmation statement, like : I have more positive energy now, I am a mature person, I always smile whatever happened, I always happy whatever happened, etc. After I say that (in my heart), their emotion getting better. Sometimes I feel amazing, but I just do it, because it works for me almost all the times.

2. This methods maybe difficult, but it also works for me. Last times, I don’t believe it, but after I see it works, I always do this. But I think we need to have the strong belief that we are always full of gratitude. In that bad situations, I say that I am gratitude of everythings, although it makes me feel bad, I accept them whatever they are. Then my negative feeling dissapeared.

Just try and see the results. Thank you and God bless you.