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Ask Cyndi: Why Do I Keep Shooting My Toes Off?

Dear Cyndi,

I love your mail!

My question: Why do I keep shooting my toes off and my smiles run away from my lips…

I have designed many creative projects.

The latest one, (a new novelty product item for kids/parents) I had spoken with a guy who owns his own novelty store. He was interested. I took so long to get back in contact, a week, and lost the opportunity to sell the design, pattern, copyright, patent etc; which was my goal.

I am confident, self-assured, talented, know the product I was pitching, and myself are worthy and expect to succeed.

The product is 99% ready, still have a few details on the artwork to finish.

I keep lagging each time I want to sell, feel undecided, know retailing from working with companies from managements-sales, and just plain unsure in this part of retailing.

I am an inventor of many products, detailing each from A-Z, and a Board game designer, writer of Fiction books and Lyrics.

Advise me if you can…My wealth awaits…

Thanks,

Shirle

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Hi Shirle;

What if I told you that the Universe always answers every question you ask – always – without exception.

It does….

Which means, quite simply…

Be very careful what questions you ask – and always, always ask only those questions which you want answers too.

Do you really want to know why you keep shooting your toes off?  Or why you keep losing your smile?

Wouldn’t  you prefer the Universe tell you how to broaden your smile?

My advise for everyone is to begin using what are called “Noble Questions” .  I learned this technique from Denise Linn  and it is also incorporated in some of the Super Mind Academy teachings.

These questions raise your vibration and put you in a great mood (if they don’t they aren’t noble questions).

These questions have within them the assumption that you are already successful and that you are looking to expand upon that success.

The answers to these questions will always help propel you into the next stage of your highest and best life.

When you commit to a daily practice of writing out Noble Questions your life will improve – it must….

The following are some examples of Noble questions you can use to help you through this current stage of your life.  My advice is that you adjust these to make them your own – and that you add to them daily …

  • In what ways can I be even more successful today?
  • What steps can I take today to successfully market product “y”
  • How can I be of greater service today?
  • What is the best step I can take in this moment to feel even better about myself?
  • Who will help me bring my ideas to market?
  • What classes can I take to become more confident in my marketing skills?

Noble questions empower you and open you to new ideas and opportunities.  They bring you into vibrational alignment with success.  And they are fun to create.

All that said – if you are not used to working with them they can take some getting used to.  Most of us have been taught to focus on what we have been doing wrong.  Anyone who has gone for psychoanalysis is familiar with this false belief in the importance of evaluating and tearing apart our mistakes and faults – believing that it is only by acknowledging our short comings that we can improve.  For many this look at the negative is deep seated and often not even noticed.

And so – because I believe so strongly in the power of this simple technique – and because I am really really good at it (hmmm  What steps can I take to get even better at Noble Questions?)  I  am willing to offer my assistance to anyone interested in working with this technique.

Just use the comment section below to write out  a list of  your Noble Questions.  I will respond to at least the first 20 or so commentors  with either a pat on the back or a suggestion on how to make your questions more powerful.

In what ways can we make this process even more fun and powerful?

Once you are comfortable with the process – commit to spending a few minutes each day writing out some questions.  Just write the questions – no need to contemplate the answers -  they will simply show up – as inspiration – or a magazine ad – a call from a friend – or an overheard conversation in the grocery store.

Just do your part – ask the questions you most want answered – keep asking until you feel the smile on your face expand – and come back here often and tell us how its going

Loving the Journey :-)

Cyndi

About Ask Cyndi

To learn more about me and a little bit about my motivation see…Why Ask Cyndi

The questions that I answer will be published in the ezine and an email will also be sent to the person who asked the question. I initially thought that I wouldn’t use real names in my reply – but the energy wasn’t quite right (I sit in presence with everyone I communicate with)- so unless requested otherwise I will use your first name in the response.

My plan is to publish new questions at least once a week – so check back often

Please use the comment section at the end of post to share your thoughts on the question and the response. We are a Community that is growing in Love and Light in every moment – and our combined intention for the Highest and Best can and will move mountains :-)

To submit your own question to Ask Cyndi  send an email to cyndi(at)evolutionezine.com.   In the response I will use your first name (unless requested otherwise) but your email address will remain confidential.

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27 Responses to “Ask Cyndi: Why Do I Keep Shooting My Toes Off?”

  1. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi;

    I just finished writing the post above – and I wanted to comment – I feel wonderful – and it is because of the time I spent with the questions. So – I thought I would strengthen this feeling a little more by sharing some more Noble Questions with you….

    *How can I be of even greater service today?
    *What steps can I take to allow even more of my beauty to manifest physicallY?
    *In what ways can I improve my physical health even more?
    *How can I be even more supportive as I journey to my ideal weight?
    *What steps can I take to reach even more people with the messages in the ezine?
    *How can I have an even better relationship with my Mom? with my children?
    *What additional steps can I take to increase my income in 2011 by 35%?
    *How can I increase my intuitive skills even more?

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  2. Shirle says:

    Hi Cyndi!

    I appreciate your candor. Your words rang true.
    I will set with your advice, teaching methods, and see what inuitively pops up.

    Thanks for sharing your insights, messages, and journey with me,

    Big smiles across the miles,
    Shirle

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  3. Marti says:

    How can I be even more forgiving toward my co-workers today?
    What steps can I take today to improve my physical health even more?
    How can I recognize which of all the amazing business opportunities I am offered is the one I should focus on? (I know I need to get rid of the “should” but how?

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  4. Leila says:

    This is a great idea Cyndi! Here are my questions: How can I make my creative journey easier for myself today?
    In what way can I improve my mental/emotional/physical health now?
    How would my son most appreciate my help right now?
    What is the best way to frame a noble question about a lover?
    Thanks.

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  5. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi Leila

    I like your questions….

    and I would love to know how these feel to you….

    How can I allow my creative journey to be even easier today?
    What Steps can I take today to improve my mental health even more?
    In what ways can I be of even greater service to my Son?
    What steps can I take to become even more independent of my Sons good opinion of me?

    As for the question about a lover – it depends upon what you are looking for….

    How can I become even more aligned with my lover who is in this moment on his way to me?
    What steps can I take to allow an even healthier love relationship into my life?
    How can I improve my relationship with my lover even more?

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  6. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi Marti – I like your questions – and you can easily replace “the one I should focus on” with “the one to focus on”

    also – what do you think of…

    What is the best thing I can do for my physical health in this moment now?
    How can I be even more forgiving toward myself as I become even more aware of my judgements of others?
    What steps can I take today to put me in alignment with the business opportunities that serve my highest and best?

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  7. Lisa says:

    Hi Cyndi – love the idea of Noble Questions, I had not come across this before but feel it will go hand in hand with my daily gratitude journal. Here is my first shot at some questions…
    * What steps can I take today to help my body prepare for pregnancy?
    * In what ways can I help my body overcome endometriosis?
    * How can I have an even more fulfilling relationship with my partner?
    * What actions can I take to engage viewers of my website to turn them into customers?
    * Who will help me market my designs & creations?
    * How can I take my limiting beliefs on wealth to a higher level today?
    … this is quite addictive! Cyndi, how many roughly should you aim for when doing this as a daily practice? Looking forward to your feedback!
    Thanks
    Lisa

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  8. Cameron says:

    How can I increase my level of discipline and perseverance even more?
    How can guide myself to act on my intuition quicker?
    What actions and steps can I initiate to create even more brilliant thoughts?
    In what ways can I build upon the momentum that has been created in locating best matches for bulk and wholesale products?

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  9. Radactrice says:

    1. What can I do today to increase my financial security?
    2. How can I support myself on my path to physical health?
    3. What steps can I take to find an agent for my work?
    4. What is the best thing I can do right now to increase my wealth?
    5. How can I best let go of fear?
    6. How can I best serve others through my work?

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  10. Lee says:

    Hi, This is a very new and interesting way for me to focus. I am working on improving my financial situation. I have started visualizing, which is not going very well because I am not very creative in that aspect. I do already have some of your mp3s,especially the alpha sound recording, which has helped me immensely for my emotional healing after the recent death of 2 close family members. When I get off work tonight I will sit and ponder and make a list of meaningful and noble questions about my future. Then I will ask the Universe to answer them and show me the path I should take.

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  11. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi Lisa;

    First – My recommendation – is to keep writing the questions until you feel the energy shift – it usually only takes a few minutes – and then if you have the time and des keep going. I too find the practice quite addictive and the more I write the better I feel.

    Now – as for your questions – take a look at these and let me know if you can “feel” the difference….

    *What additional steps can I take today as my body continues to prepare for pregnancy.
    *How can I continue to support my body as it moves into total wellness
    *How can I have an even more fulfilling relationship with my partner (yep – not a word shifted :-) )
    *What additional steps can I take to attract and support those that will be most served by my product(s)
    *In what way can I more (most) effectively attract those that can successfully help in the marketing of my designs and creations
    *What can I do now to step into the flow of infinite abundance

    Loving the Ride :-)

    btw – I noticed you didn’t leave a link to your website – would love to have a peek….
    also – wondering if you ever considered acupuncture? My acupuncturist specializes in fertility and has the most amazing success rates….
    *

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  12. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi Cameron;

    I like your questions – I was just wondering for what reasons you wish to develop more discipline and perseverance – and if you added a question such as…

    *How can I make my daily practice even more enjoyable?

    You may not need so much discipline :-)

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  13. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi Radactrice;

    I am feeling more empowered by your questions. To make some of them even more powerful you may want to consider….

    1) What additional steps can I take today to increase my finances?
    2) How can I support myself even more as I continue to become more and more physically fit
    3) What additional steps can I take to find an agent for my work?
    5) How can I best let go of fear in this moment?

    and – just curious – what kind of work?

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  14. Randy Summers says:

    Dear Cyndi, My noble questions would include,

    1) How can one I get even closer to the one I love?

    2) How can I manifest my invention even faster?

    3) Can the questions I ask be more positive for me and others?

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  15. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi Randy;

    I love your questions – my only suggestion would be with number 3…

    How can I ask questions that will produce even more positive results for me and others?

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  16. Brenda says:

    Hi Cindy was searching for something to lift me out of my current black hole so here goes.
    How can I wake up each morning excited about the new day?
    How can I have an even better relationship with my husband?
    How can I make my business even more successful?
    How can strengthen my mental & emotional health even more?
    How can I cause my customers to feel even more special and looked after?
    How can I have even more creative ideas?
    How can I be an even better more loving supportive parent?
    How can I be even more energetic and enthusiastic?
    How can I express myself even more clearly?
    How can I prepare even better for my retirement?
    How can I uncover even more of my abilities?
    How can I ask questions that will produce results for the highest good of all concerned?
    How can I remember even more happy & succesful times?
    How can I have an even better relationship with my sister?

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  17. Brenda says:

    Hi Cindy I was looking for something today that would kick me out of my present black hole so here goes.
    How can I wake each morning feeling even more refreshed and eager to start the day?
    How can I do my work even more expertly and efficiently?
    How can I love everything about my life even more?
    How can I have and even better relationship with my husband?
    How can I have even more memories of success and happy times?
    How can I express myself more clearly and lovingly?
    How can I love & accept myself even more?
    How can I make my business even more successful and fun?
    How can I make my customers feel even more special and looked after?
    How can I have more creative ideas?
    How can I strengthen my mental,emotional & physical health?
    How can I see and here the most positive communication?
    How can I ask even better questions?
    How can I have more clarity & vision?

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  18. Mantle Man says:

    Why do we run from one cure to another when the procedure is to ask? We run from one message to another when the only way to get the answer is to ask, believe and receive then action. No, we bounce from one “cure” to another looking for the same answer a different way.Drifting from one solution and another when the answer was at the first bus stop. I dont get it.

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  19. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi Brenda;

    Terrific questions :-)
    Wondering – how did writing them make you feel? Did it turn a light on in that black hole you spoke about?

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  20. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi Brenda;

    Super questions – I can feel them – and plan to use some during my own practice – thank you for sharing :-)

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  21. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi Mantle Man;

    One of the things that Nobel Questions do is they help us clarify our asking. They also help us see where we are putting our attention. I invite you to work with the questions in this way for a little while and see what happens.

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  22. Diane says:

    Hi Cyndi, I love the idea of noble questions guiding us to noble inspired answers. I am in process of divorce and desire to move forward after a very long emotionally abusive relationship. Trying to be more sure of myself and my direction. I’ll give it a try…

    *How can I learn to trust myself and my intuition even more?
    *What can I do to LOVE and ACCEPT myself on a deeper level?
    *How can I remove the critical mocking voice in my head and replace it with a voice of love and validation?
    *How can I increase my faith in and trust in God more today?
    *How can I conquer the fear of my husband and of divorce and move forward in powerful ways?
    *Where can I turn to find affordable, competent legal help for my divorce?
    *How can I increase my income and still have time to be there for my son and daughter?
    *How can I know the right place to live to best meet my needs and my children’s needs?
    *How can I create a positive, loving, powerful opinion of myself so I can propel myself into a new happy reality of peace and joy and growth?
    *How can I best serve others today?
    *How can I prepare myself for a loving, honest, supportive, joy-filled love relationship in my future?
    Thank you for the opportunity to reflect and create these questions. It has been a good experience. Email me back if you are able.
    Thanks and blessings on you for the light you bring the world!!!!
    Love Diane

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  23. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi Diane;

    My recommendation is that the questions focus all of our attention on the positive – without adding much weight to any negative aspects of the current life story – for instance instead of…

    *How can I remove the critical mocking voice……

    How about…

    *How and can I further strengthen and empower the voice of love and validation that I hear more and more in my head?

    and instead of…

    *How can I conquer the fear of…

    you consider…

    *How can bring even more love and joy into the present moment ? and…
    *How can I step forward with even more love and faith?
    *How can I feel even better about myself and the decisions I am making today?

    also wondering how these make you feel…

    *What steps can I take today to increase my income in a way that serves the highest and Best?
    *How can I be an even more supportive Mom?
    *In what ways can I be supportive to myself today?
    *How can I bring more joy and laughter into this moment now?
    *How can I feel even better about myself?

    Keep writing questions – stay in touch – and know that we are seeing you successful – happy – powerful – and more than competent as you move through this challenging time

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  24. Mary Jean says:

    I read your article today and thought it was very interesting. Then later todaty I went to the library and got a book “The Secret Code of Success” by Noah St. John. The book is about the same ideas presented in your article! Synchronicity! I will definitely give this a try! Thank you.

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  25. Mary Martha Pazos says:

    Cyndi, how can we thank you enough for the wonderful, uplifting, heartfelt suggestions you so lovingly pour forth?

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  26. AdminCyndi says:

    Hi Mary

    you just did :-)

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  27. Lisa says:

    Hi Cindy

    Thanks, yes I can feel a difference in the way you worded the questions – WAY more empowering! I love it. I guess the key is to focus on positive descriptions & terminology? And perhaps even to assume a certain level of the good things that you simply want to attract more of rather than feeling that you lack them in the first place, right?
    Funny you should mention acupuncture – just got the name of a local practitioner today! Included a link this time – enjoy your peek!

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