Hi, I would like to know, if we all create our own lives, well when my brother committed suicide at 21 did I play a part in that? Did I create that also?
Thanks for your help
First – I sit in presence with you and your family and all those affected by the loss of your brother’s life.
What I have come to know is that there are many things I do not know – and that I expect I will never understand while constrained within a 3 dimensional reality. The clear cut answer to your question is one of those things.
That said – I would like to suggest that you consider shelving the question for the time being in favor of a few other questions that may provide a way through the torment you are feeling.
What Can I Create that is Good from This Experience?
How Can I Use this Experience, and these feelings, to live life more Completely?
In What Ways Can I Honor my Brothers Life?
In many ways our lives are shaped by the questions we ask. Ask questions that raise our vibration and are designed to empower us and our vibration is raised. Ask questions that lower our vibration and we tend to get bogged down and stuck.
I can feel a resistance to letting go of your original question – and I can understand that. But please remember I didn’t ask you to let go of it completely – just to shelve it for awhile. If you do I expect, after a certain period of time committed to living your highest and best life, an answer will come to you that will open you to a clearer understanding and a sense of inner peace.
Please stay in touch – I care….
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