Hi dear, thanks for your time.
You see I don’t believe that there is any way to know anything for sure. Mostly I guess cause there is always many answers to the same questions. Anyways I don’t think I trust anyone or thing, not myself, whatever I am, and I sure as heck believe that life and reality may just be to alleviate boredom.
I suppose I’m nuts but it just seems to me like why bother with anything, you don’t know and there seems to be no way to know and no one has kept on living yet and I sure am glad we do get to die and that it doesn’t last too long. Of course I sorta do feel as if life is a little lengthy, I’m 52 myself what in the heck do I have left, dying? That’s about all I see, whatever! Let me ask this, is life better than not living, an if so, how do you know for sure?
I don’t know anything for sure.
And I don’t recall what it is like to be without human form – so I can not say for sure that living is better than not living.
I can only share from where I am now – based upon my experiences and my decisions based upon those experiences…
I too don’t believe “anything” that I have been taught by others – not without sitting with it to see how it feels. And even then – when I accept something – I recognize that it is a belief that I may end up abandoning in a day or two.
And I am learning to enjoy the uncertainty of it all – and – for me anyway – that is making all the difference.
There was a time that I lost myself in questioning similar to yours – and it really is like getting lost isn’t it? These are questions that by design keep our energy low and are without clear cut answers.
What I love about being human is that we are all free to choose what questions we walk around with – we are free to choose where we place our attention – and we are free at any time to change that choice.
From my experiences with Mediumship I have a strong belief that we exist outside our human form – and that the decisions we make now, relative to the thoughts we hold and the actions we take, stay with us when we shed our human skin. In other words, we cannot escape our so called “problems” by leaving our bodies. They stay with us – and not only that – they become incorporated in our DNA patterning and they color the lives of those that come after us.
It is this belief that keeps me firmly moving forward when questions such as yours attempt to take root. Our thoughts, and therefore the suffering we choose to experience based upon our thoughts, do not magically go “poof” when we die. And - our thoughts do not just affect us – they also affect those we connect with.
With all that said – what better time than now to raise your vibration and play with looking at life from a different perspective. What you say above may be true – but so what – in what way does focusing on it serve you?
Like you write above – there are many beliefs – so why not try some different ones on and see how they feel?
Why not walk around for a while thinking that life is meant to be enjoyed no matter what gets thrown at you? That thoughts are just thoughts and if you don’t like them you can change them. And that there is nothing more important than being Happy.
What if you decide to move towards the direction of sitting in Happy for a while? To do things just because they feel good – and for no other reason? What if you decide to see how different life looks if you wear a smile for a day or too – just because.
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