After the loss of two babies I have spent a few years trying to get on top of things. I feel that I have come a long way and I now know the direction in which I want to go and the things I want to do (like having another child) I feel that my husband doesn’t feel that I am serious and I am having trouble talking to him about this. This is something that I feel is right for me and that I really need to do. He does not feel the same way. We already have two children and for him this is enough.
But I can’t let it go.
I sit in presence for you and your family.
Without knowing more I sense that any comment I make here will be in some way incomplete. I am not even certain what your question is. That said – there are a few thoughts I would like to share with the intent that you find within them something of value that will support you during this time in your life.
Within each moment/story exists the opportunity for expansion and divine connection. Your circumstances are no exception. When we are in the space of Divine Connection (when My Will and the Divine Will are one) then the path chosen will light up – and the actions taken will “feel” right – through and through – even when logic or the outside world appears to be against the chosen path.
As long as there is still uncertainty – or resistance – or frustration – then there are areas within us that can be released – and it is my recommendation that the primary focus be on the release – until the time that you get to that place that Lester Levenson calls “Hootlessness”.
Hootlessness is a space where you can remain in peace regardless of your life circumstance. And from this space of peace the actions that serve your Highest and Best will light up – you will know what to do without question.
How to release? There are many techniques being taught – such as EFT, The Work, and the Sedona Method. Any method that allows you to look at the story you are attached to will work.
There is more that I can write about communication and relationships and being heard – all points of frustration I sense from your question – but the more I sit with this situation the more I want to suggest that you go inside and release any attachment you have to a specific path and instead allow the Divine Path to reveal itself to you.
May Love and Light Fill Your Day – and Your Thoughts
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