Thanks for your intro .. and .. can I come and live with you? just joking
1. The first question to come to mind is one that has been my focus for a while. If we are directed by our subconscious, and not really conscious of what’s going on there, how can I make the changes in my subconscious that I need to change? I have struggled a bit with having the trust everything is ok, (including the fact that I am not less than) No matter what I try nothing seems to make enough of a difference…. (ok I’m laughing at that one .. that’d be the same as the sentence before) The annoying thing is I can come up with the answers but find it difficult to get into the habits I know will help ie meditation, and just about every method you’ve mentioned in your intro.
At the same time I know everything is progressing, I do have a certain amount of trust everything is ok.
Now I’ve forgotten the 2nd question .. oh well, I’ll write again if it comes to mind.
Thanks again for sharing a bit of who you are with us,
lots of love, Carmel
To answer your first question – I love sharing this earth plane with you – and as for my physical home – well – if you don’t mind the couch, the drama of 12 and 13 year old girls, and a friendly black dog who loves the couch then we can talk…..
As for your second question…
We are very aware of what is going on in our subconscious minds – we can see it reflected back to us in our life experience. Everything we have and are attracting into our lives comes from the programming we are holding in our other than conscious mind.
Everything – no exceptions….
So the real question isn’t - how do we know what’s there – the question is, what do I do about it?
Time Out (give me a moment – I got to this place in my answer and got stuck – and when I get stuck I take a time out – close my eyes – take a deep breath or two or three – get connected with my intention – and allow the next step to come to me…)
OK I am back …
And here’s what I suggest….
Take the time to get really clear about what it is you are intending. What is it you really want? Not the home or financial security or perfect relationship – get underneath that – what is it you want?
Me – When it comes right down to it what I want is too “Know Myself”. I want to know who I am and I want to know how I can be of Highest and Best Service.
Once you get clear on what it is you want – what you deep down want beyond everything else – use it to focus your Present Moment and Future Plans. Use it to decide which of the infinite tools available are right for you. Use it to determine what judgements (towards yourself or others) you hold on to.
For me – when I find a thought or emotion coming up that feels – well – “yucky” – I ask…
“How can I use this to know myself?”
When I find the voice in my head blaming others for what I perceive to be something negative in my life I ask…
“In what way does this help me serve others?”
And when I mess up and find myself at the other end of a day of feeling sorry for myself I ask…
“What is the Highest and Best thing I can do in this moment?” (the answer to this one – always – is to forgive myself, do something that illicits a smile, and move on)
After each question take a few deep breathes and give the answer a chance to show up. It will – it always does.
And one more thing – no matter what anyone ever tells you – or what you currently believe – there is nothing more important than being Happy – and Liking Yourself – and both of these states is a choice – an internal choice that has nothing to do with outside circumstances – though has everything to do with what your outside circumstances will become.
Need a moment of happiness – watch this – works for me everytime
With Joy and In Celebration of this Most Magnificent Journey
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